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Sleeping

Key points

  • Getting enough sleep is vital for your child’s physical health, brain function, emotional wellbeing, safety, and ability to function day-to-day. 
  • A child who does not get enough healthy sleep may experience difficulties with concentration, memory, regulating their emotions, organising tasks and creative thinking. 

What is typical?

Sleep needs change throughout your child’s life depending on the life stage that they are in. Typically, children should sleep:

  • infants (0–3 months): 14–17 hours, including naps
  • infants (4–12 months: 12–16 hours, including naps
  • toddlers (1–2 years): 11–14 hours, including naps
  • preschool (3–5 years): 10–13 hours, including naps
  • school-age (6–13 years): 9–12 hours

What are the common concerns?

How can I tell if my child isn’t getting enough sleep? A child who isn’t getting enough sleep may:

  • fall asleep during the day
  • be hyperactive (especially younger children)
  • have trouble paying attention
  • struggle with school work
  • be cranky, whiny, irritable, or moody
  • have behaviour problems

Signs of sleep problems include:

  • Sleepwalking
  • Wetting the bed
  • Night terrors
  • Teeth grinding
  • Snoring
  • Trouble breathing while asleep, or taking long pauses between breaths

What can I do?

  • Stick to a regular bedtime. You can give your kids a heads-up 30 minutes and then 10 minutes beforehand.
  • Establish a bedtime routine which might include having a shower or bath, brushing teeth, reading a book, or listening to quiet music, singing a lullaby and picking a stuffed animal to sleep with.
  • Turn off all screens (TV, computers, phones, tablets, and video games) at least 1 hour before bedtime.
  • Setting the thermostat to a slightly cooler temperature
  • Using dark curtains to block out light, or use a nightlight if they’re scared of the dark.

Who can I speak to?

If you think your child may have a sleep problem, especially if they have trouble breathing while they sleep, talk to your general practitioner (GP), paediatrician or Maternal and Child Health nurse.

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